One Third of my Life!

With experience comes perfection. But its nothing wrong to be imperfect. Trying to be perfect is always good. In pursuit of being perfect don't miss to try. This piece would have just missed from being an article but this thought made this possible.

I was looking for the right context and words to make this perfect. I was supposed to write it on 9th may, a week ago but I couldn't. And I thought I have missed it and had a hard feeling since it is important to me. "Better late than never" these words gave me the guts to write this though its late.  

It's about my life so it's important for me. Yes it's about one third of my life. There is nothing great to share but still i do. You may wonder, why i say there is nothing great. "Good is the enemy of Great". Great is defined by comparing it with something good or bad. Only then we will be able to find what's good or great. Everyday was great that I didn't have any day to compare and differentiate, what was good and what was great. I am talking about my days at my organization.

   

It's a decade now with my Organization. Oh really! I asked myself. The very first day when I joined here, I thought I should really serve long term - 5 years was my goal. Gradually after a couple of months I thought 3 years would be enough and I can switch to other companies. I used to wonder looking at my colleagues who had spent 5 yrs or 8 yrs with this wonderful Organization. I don't even remember how 3650 days passed by but each day was challenging and demanding. This keeps me moving. I have told many of my colleagues and friends that I'm gonna quit here or looking for change. Don't laugh, I might have told you as well.I have been telling this for past few years  but I haven’t quit. When I interospect, neither there is a push factor internally nor a pull factor externally. 

Some may say, our workplace is an extended family. But I would call it a family. May be I'm blessed or lucky to have people around. If I quote their name I need to attach an excel sheet and mention their name, sorry your name. Yes! You. Each and everyone who is reading this would have contributed directly or indirectly in these 10 yrs motivating me, guiding me, being with me and shaping me. 

I'm not exaggerating here. You may feel bored reading this. Of course, reading biography of a successful person would be interesting even if he drinks coffee, but a normal person's biography sorry story wouldn't be. Yet I should quote few things which I shouldn't miss. There were many ups and downs. But I cherish each and every moment. (I don't quote the names here for some reason) Have you played badminton with the Head of the function, not just one game but casually most of the days? Has your boss ever asked you, give me your details, let me find an alliance for you? Has your colleague become your friend accompanying you to look for alliances? Did your head become your friend planning trips with you? Head becomes care taker and stays with you in hospital when you are sick? Colleague invites you home for dinner, not once for formality but everyday when your parents were not at home? There is much more that i can't express. If all these happens with office colleagues, aren't they your family? 

Employees leave when they are less engaged. But for me, it happened without realization. I was engaged without any engagement programs. I should definitely mention here the world class gym facility, which is another pull factor that helps me wake up early in the morning and attracts me towards office. 

More importantly my friends,  my family,  my near and dear one who support me blindly in all my foolish activities, are the reason for whatever I have achieved. They are also the reason for the level of my madness. 

I feel grateful to all those who are with me and who were with me, for who I'm now.

Thank you for shaping me and making me!

I know you are more curious to know why I didn't mention the name of the Organization. If you know me you will know that as well.

Happy Reading! 

You decide the topic

I didn't think to write.. I didn't want to waste your time.. I didn't want to waste my time neither. But i am helpless. Im wasting my time to waste your time. Now i am not writing this with the intention to waste your time. No No. "Now" you are reading by wasting your time, I am not writing. Which is true? I know I'm writing is true because right now I'm writing. Only because I'm writing now, you can read it. So you agree that I'm telling the truth? If so aren't you reading now? If you are true then i am false. And if i am true. You are false. 

True or False is not the topic of this article. The title is "You decide the topic". So how will you arrive at the topic? We water the plant regularly, if we don't, it dies. But we don't water the fish instead we feed them. Different beings need different types of food to live healthy. For my blog the feed is my article, for me its writing and for you its reading my blog. 

Read and feed your brain! 

You can decide the topic and suggest on the comment. The best suitable title will not be rewarded instead considered for next title as a token of wasting time.

Happy reading!

Love Yourself

Its almost 25 yrs now (don't calculate my age) I still haven't found the answer. If you ask me what's the question,  you gonna stare at me. "Who am I?" is the question. Many of us have this question in mind. Not sure if you have the answer. But let's discuss about it later. 

Let's not be philosophical, instead talk something physical. Obviously related to the topic. LOVE YOURSELF. When I say love yourself, its more important to love your life partner. Only then you can succeed. Without a healthy life partner, you cannot lead a happy life. I can read your mind, no no no, I didnt mean that. I mean the real life partner. The one who is with you from your birth till your death. None other than your body. Yes, your body is your life partner. Love your body.

I am not talking about what I read but what I experienced. Being healthy is more important in life.  Being fit is more important to be healthy.  Being fit and being healthy are two different things.  People tend to confuse.  But both go hand in hand.  

One size doesn't fit all when it comes to fitness. Each one has to follow their own fitness mantra. But focusing on being fit brings miracle in your life. There is nothing called tomorrow in fitness. And there is no comparison to the past. Bring the element of past and future only if it motivates you. 

Those who think its too late, I am already out of my shape, I have gained lot of weight, I have tried but its not working, these are all excuses. Nothing is late to be fit. Start slow but start now. The problem is NOW doesn't come today for many of us, who end up waiting for tomorrow which never comes. But after some or few workouts, we call it off saying there is no progress. There we expect magic to happen NOW. Years of assault and humiliation to your own body but expecting it to react in favor immediately is not fair. Give little more time. It will surely respond. Even Rome wasn't built in a single day. Its just stone and architecture. Thousands of architects worked on on it in a single day. But you are the only architect who can work on you. No one else can. So shape yourself.

I have come across two types of people. One who says I am tired,  I can't do workout I will get more tired.  Another who says I am tired,  I want to do workout so that I will be fresh.  If you fall under second set don't read till the end of this paragraph. This is only to the first set of people, don't skip workout even for a single day. Trust me,  even if you are tired,  do little. You will definitely feel fresh.  Try it. And you can skip the next paragraph.

This is only for the second set of people. When you have a tiring day, its not wrong to have a cheat day. Give some breathing time for your body to heal and rejuvenate. You won't miss anything but gain more energy for the next day.

Let me share with you tips which helps you being consistent and keep going. Share your goal with your friends. Some may tease you in the beginning, nothing bad, they are friends. But few days later when your change is visible they start admiring at you. They praise you. Afterall we all are human, we would like to be praised. Have a "No matter what list" with you.  Make fitness a point in that. Follow it religiously. Also if you have a workout partner that's the best you get in fitness. A partner will never let you down. There will always be a little more push, when you workout with your partner. If you can't find a partner, see yourself in the mirror and have yourself as your partner. Self motivation is the best motivation. You are a champ. You don't need anyone else to motivate you. See the mirror. See your changes. You will definitely get motivated. I bet you. You will love yourself.

I am happy, since you have read this. I will be even more happy if you start your fitness journey today.

Happy Reading!!!

The Hard Truth of Life

No matter how hard you try to make someone happy, you will never succeed. Try to make yourself happy, that's the only possibility.

You may sacrifice doing things which you don't like, for someone whom you like. Is it the real you? You are faking. You want to be loved? The real you or the fake you? When you do things you don't like you are exposing the fake you to the one whom you like. They tend to like the fake you, not the real you. When you become real, they hate you.

Don't expect others to understand you when they know only the fake you. It's not their mistake. They can understand only the fake you. Because they only know the fake you. When you are upset or nervous or in pain, the real you unveils. It's new to those whose are used to see the fake you. They never know you and you can't expect someone to understand a stranger. These two souls were never connected. They don't know each other. So misunderstanding is obvious. Accept the misunderstanding because it's your mistake.

Can you make yourself happy? Yes? Always? No not always.. then how can you try to make others happy always? Making others happy is a good thing to do. But are you happy to make others happy? You can share only what you have. You can't when you don't have. When you are not knowledgeable on a subject, you can't take a knowledge sharing session. When you don't have money, you can't share money. When you are suffering from hunger, you can't share food. When you are not happy, you can't share happiness and make others happy. If you still do, it's faking yourself. Faking someone. First make yourself happy, then try making others happy.

Hard Truth!!!

My autobiography "How not to Live"

I always wanted to write about my life as a book but it's not worth writing about it and it won't be useful to anyone.
But suddenly some quote strike my mind, I am not useless, I can be used as a bad example. Which gave birth to my precious book "How not to Live".
Living is easy but living good is difficult. Good can be defined only in comparison with something bad. Without me there can't be any good human. I'm bad and my life is bad but I came across many good human. They made me understand that I'm bad.
I'm gonna write about my experiences, obviously my bad experiences which anyone should avoid to live a good life..
There are few good experiences too.. you decide what is good for you and what is bad for you.. anyone can define what is good and what is bad but no one can define what is good for you and what is bad for you when it comes to your life.. you are the designer of your life..
The book "How not to Live " will be published soon or later.. hurry up and book your book!!! I'm not sure if it will be worth reading the book but if you really understood the meaning of life it will be worth living a life without doing what is not mentioned in the book..
Why are you still waiting? Book it now.. first 100 editions free.. it's gonna be the book of the millennium.. may be!!! Who knows???
See you soon!!!
Totodoin totodoin totodoin..

Happy life

I used to wonder, why life is full of sorrows. But now i realise that i am wrong in wondering. Even there is happiness in sorrows. Yes, its deep inside.

When you are filled with sorrows, just think of these three questions.
Why we are sad?
What incident made us to feel sad?
Which person made us feel so?
You will end with happiness atlast because its nothing but the affection they have on you. Will we be sad if someone is more affection on us? Obviously no. Then why should we be sad if it is by our dear ones?

Sometimes the sadness is because someone we dont like. May be the so called enemies. If we dont like them, then why should we feel for the actions made by them? Just ignore and be happy.
Life is not filled with sorrows and happiness. It is only happiness!!!!!!!!

Rain - gave life but now taking life

Earlier, Most of the people depends on rain for their day today life, as agriculture was the only source of money. Agriculture mainly depends on water. The main resource of water is rain. The other resources of water are lake, pond, river, well, etc.. But all these indirectly depnds on rain.  So without rain there is no cultivation, without cultivation there is no food, without food there is no life, without life there is nothing as we know. So the most important thing is the Rain. It gave life to all.

But now, Rain is demolishing the life in many ways. Due to rain flood occurs, and due to this many life sink in water. Because of rain many Electric post fell down and the public passing by, get the shock and losing their life. some are affected by thunder, lightning and strom. The day today life is totally affected.