To write about any topic one should be good at it, but here is one topic which one cannot master. I usually won't think much to decide the topic but this topic made me think for months not to collect the content but to take a decision whether to write or not. Yes, this topic is relevant for everyone in this world but no one can be a master in it. If someone claims he or she is an expert in this, it's obvious that they are not.
Yes you are right, It's maturity.
A matured human knows he has not attained the level of maturity. Only those who are half matured, thinks they are matured. I had this question in mind, I'm not matured, then how I can write about maturity? I shouldn't write. I had this question again and again, but if I am not eligible to write, no one in this world is eligible to write about maturity because no one is matured. If so who will write, who will talk about maturity? Who will educate this world? After thinking long, I took a decision to write about maturity. It's not a great decision though, it opens my thought process, atleast when I write and read this.
I didn't read much about maturity, in fact I'm a poor reader and a very poor follower. So it's my view, you may be more matured than me and so your thoughts may vary. We can always discuss about it. So let me ask the default question "what is maturity?" Maturity (according to me) is understanding and acting best based on situation. In short, How you handle the situation. Do we realise while doing that we can do better than how we are doing? Or we realize it late? Realization happens only in the later stage and by the time we realize, the moment is gone. Mistakes are done and some cannot be rectified. One cannot completely ignore the mistakes but can reduce it. Behaving immatured is not always a mistake but might hurt others.
Not sure how many of you experienced it, but I have. Thought I am very much matured and all my decisions are right, when i was in class 10, I looked down at class 6 students that they are immatured. But we realize we are not matured during school only while entering college. The feel of becoming a much matured Adult comes on day one of college. Realization of immaturity of college days come only when we step into the first job. Is that Maturity comes with age? If so dont we feel, our grand parents sometimes behave immatured. At every stage of life we feel we are matured. But actually we aren't.
Maturity is accepting that I'm not matured but behaving beyond that understanding.
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